?grimy

grimy發(fā)音

英：['ɡra?m?]　　美：[?ɡra?m?]

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grimy中文意思翻譯

adj.骯臟的

grimy詞形變化

形容詞比較級: grimier | 副詞: grimily | 形容詞最高級: grimiest | 名詞: griminess |

grimy同義詞

rigid | depressing | sorry | unwell | dismal | unrelenting | constant | dark | bleak | inexorable | down in the mouth | down | shocking | ill | macabre | fearful | somber | gloomy | grisly | funereal | dingy | unyielding | unforgiving | merciless | unappeasable | harsh | dreary | stern | blue | forbidding | serious | drear | strict | ghastly | gruesome | fierce | grave | horrible | drab | downcast | terrible | dreadful | rough | bloodless | dour | ugly | relentless | sick | dispirited | adamant | black | frightful | shoddy | downhearted | low-spirited | disconsolate | depressed | cheerless | violent | low | bad | mordant | iron | inflexible

grimy反義詞

mild | gentle | meek | quiet

grimy常見例句

1 、Usage: The gang met at a flyblown, grimy little bar on the edge of town to plan its next heist.───這幫人在城邊上的一個污穢不堪的小酒吧里計劃下一次搶劫。

2 、Although soldiers might not have the opportunity to bathe for months on end, Russian (Turkish) baths were one of the greatest treats imaginable for a weary and grimy soldier.───雖然一個月中戰(zhàn)士很少有機會洗澡，但土爾其浴是對疲倦和骯臟的士兵們最好的款待。

3 、Wiping down these grimy tables so we don't get hit with a health code violation.─── 擦干凈這些臟乎乎的桌子 好不會違反衛(wèi)生規(guī)定被罰款

4 、One TV personality seeks out the most dirty and grimy jobs he can find. Then he does those jobs on camera so we can all be grossed out.───有位電視名人，竭盡全力去找最骯臟的工作，然后他親自去做這些工作，并拍攝下來，讓觀眾作嘔。

5 、The stations are grimy, filthy and "gunky," they said.At their worst, they added, the stations resemble slums.───認為這些地鐵站足以令人將附近的社區(qū)誤會為貧民區(qū)。

6 、It has shuttered some of its grimy aluminum works on Beijing's orders to cut back on overcapacity.───隨著中央政府提出削減過剩產(chǎn)能，一些污染嚴重的鋁廠也被下令關(guān)閉。

7 、His costume suggests work and subservience: work-goggles around his neck, a grimy face, knee-pads.───他的裝束反映了他的狀況，脖子上一雙骨碌轉(zhuǎn)的眼睛，邋遢的臉，護膝。

8 、I could feel my grimy face cracking into an incredulous smile.───我能感到自己的臟臉咧出懷疑的笑容。

9 、A low-ceilinged, crowded room, its walls grimy from the contact of innumerable bodies; battered metal tables and chairs, placed so close together that you sat with elbows touching;───這叫什么屋子? 天棚低矮，擁擠不堪，墻壁給數(shù)不清的人摸得魆黑，鐵桌鐵椅東倒西歪，一個貼著一個，害得你要坐下，就必得碰著旁人的胳膊肘。

10 、We gaze at the faded paint and the rotting doorways and the cracked plaster and the grimy walls. Is this the glorious Venice we've heard about?───望著褪色的油漆、破破爛爛的門庭和落著墻皮的骯臟墻壁，人們不禁要問，這是久聞其名的輝煌燦爛的威尼斯嗎?

11 、I'm not grimy, and you don't know the situation.─── 我不* 你不知道實際情況

12 、grimy hands/windows───沾滿污垢的手；滿是灰塵的窗戶

13 、She was so passive and broken, sitting on that grimy floor, with General Grievous towering behind her in our imaginations.───她心理崩潰，喪失反抗能力，坐在骯臟的地板上，我們可以想見鬼伏將軍高大的身形立在她背后。

14 、Pockmarked Li snorted angrily and rushed forward to grab her with his rough, grimy paw, but she was too nimble for him: she ducked and dodged out of the way, then ran for dear life.───李麻子哼了一聲，伸出粗黑的大手來，搶前一步，就要抓那個女孩子。 可是金小妹很伶俐地矮著身體躲過，就飛也似的跑走了。

15 、106) Suddenly a grimy hand was stuck out of the window.───忽然，從窗戶伸進一只骯臟的手。

16 、Pug rubbed a hand over his grimy stubby face───帕格伸手摸了摸他那骯臟的、胡子拉茬的臉。

17 、A much larger alligator, dubbed "Reggie," has eluded an exhaustive, month-long hunt and was believed to be holed up in a grimy city lake not far from where Little Reggie was taken into custody.───據(jù)路透社9月9日報道，在出現(xiàn)一只鱷魚的馬查多湖附近，有居民近日又發(fā)現(xiàn)了另一只鱷魚在一只排水溝里曬太陽。

18 、The thin phone book was grimy from being thumbed by filling station hands.───薄薄的**薄讓油污的手指翻得黑不溜秋。

19 、A disgusting, grimy, stinking drunk had been watching all this with great interest.───一個臟兮兮、臭烘烘的醉漢饒有興趣地觀察著這一切。

20 、grimy windows───沾滿污垢的窗子

21 、grimy coating of the tongue───膩胎

22 、He struck himself on the forehead with his grimy hand, and felt that his entire head was as bald and smooth as his beardless chin.Nor was that the end of his misfortune.───他指了指堆在一邊的煤堆，示意他倆用煤渣填滿口袋，雖然他倆不知道這些東西對他們有甚么用，二話沒說便照著老人說的去做了。

23 、I'm in a bathroom, man, *ing nasty ass bathroom and it's grimy.─── 我在一個廁所 伙計 一個臟兮兮的廁所

24 、5Today Kaifeng is grimy and poor, not even the provincial capital and so minor it lacks even an airport.───5今天的開封，臟亂而貧困，甚至連省會都不是，地位卑微到連一座飛機場都沒有。

25 、He can see grimy roof, factory chimney and church spire───他可以看到骯臟的屋頂、工廠的煙囪和教堂的尖頂

26 、"The grimy fronts of the surrounding houses were not welcoming;───“骯臟和不歡迎環(huán)繞著這個房子；

27 、And it's because of money that peasants leave their lovely villages and crowd into the city to live in grimy rabbit-warrens and submerge their humanity!"───更因為了金錢，農(nóng)民離開了可愛的鄉(xiāng)村，擁擠到都市里來住齷齪的鴿子籠，把做人的性靈汩沒

28 、a miner's begrimed face; dingy linen; grimy hands; grubby little fingers; a grungy kitchen.───礦工積滿灰塵的臉；骯臟的亞麻布；骯臟的手；骯臟的小手指；骯臟的廚房。

29 、He can see grimy roof, factory chimney and church spire.───他可以看到骯臟的屋頂、工廠的煙囪和教堂的尖頂。

30 、It happens to be Africa's second biggest maize producer and a big wheat producer too, but then look at Addis Ababa's grimy grain market.───它恰巧也是非洲第二大玉米生產(chǎn)國及小麥生產(chǎn)大國，可首都亞的斯亞貝巴的糧食市場卻又臟亂不堪。

31 、A negative mind-set is like looking at the world through distorting, grimy lenses.You spot every blemish and overlook or discount everything else.───一顆消極的心好比透過一面扭曲且骯臟的透鏡觀看世界，你過分聚焦在每個污穢的地方忽略了其他。

32 、He began by lighting a paraffin lamp;then fumbled in his pocket and produced a rather grimy bandage, which he wrapped round his right hand.───他先點上煤油燈，然后從口袋里掏出一卷骯臟的紗布，把右手纏了起來。

33 、a man with a grimy face───滿面灰塵的人。

34 、A negative mind-set is like looking at the world through distorting, grimy lenses.───這些詞除了讓你感到緊張外，不會有任何用處。

35 、Her sister's flat was clean. This place was grimy and low, the girls were careless and hardened. They must be bad-minded and hearted, she imagined.───她姐姐家的房子也是干干凈凈的?？蛇@地方低矮骯臟，女工們一個個吊兒郎當，一副老油子的樣子。她猜想他們一定思想人品都很壞。

36 、Maybe stop cleaning the floors 50 times a day and clean and paint the grimy walls of all the floor lobbies and stairwells as well.───也許每天清洗50遍還不如徹底重新噴刷一下大堂和樓梯間的墻面。

37 、China is building a huge stock of grimy heavy industry, just as its coastal provinces are getting rich enough to care about the consequences.───中國正在構(gòu)筑一套重工業(yè)污染程度的評估體系，這就像那些日益富庶的沿海城市可以開始考慮治理了。

38 、Now armed only with a grimy satellite image from the internet I was trying to find the place where one part of it was kept.───我現(xiàn)在憑借一張從互聯(lián)網(wǎng)上下載的模糊不清的衛(wèi)星地圖，設(shè)法找到一個廢棄的核基地。

39 、A sickish light spills down over the stairs from the grimy, frosted windows.Everywhere the paint is peeling off.The stones are hollowed out, the banister creaks;───從骯臟不堪、結(jié)了霜的窗子里透出的慘淡光線傾瀉在樓梯上，各處的油漆都已脫落，石頭被掏空，樓梯扶手嘎嘎直響。

40 、Within the envelope there was a piece of folded paper, grimy from the dirty pocket in which it had been carried, creased and ragged about the edges.───信封里裝著一張折疊的信箋，因為被帶信人揣在骯臟的口袋里弄得灰糊糊的而且有點破了。

41 、I normally fall somewhere in between grimy backpacker and coddled travel connoisseur, but there is one luxury I can never do without: the luxury of time.───我通常會處在衣衫骯臟的徒步旅行者和嬌慣的旅行內(nèi)行之間的某個位置，但是有一種難得的東西我卻不能沒有：那就是時間。

42 、Instead, he nearly dies on a grimy train platform.─── 結(jié)果差點死在沾滿污垢的站臺上

43 、A still grimy pew with scuff marks from the boots of sleeping rescue workers is especially moving.But there is little else to see;───教堂里有點臟的條凳上救援人員的靴子留下的劃痕特別讓人動容，但是除此以外也沒有別的了；

44 、He could see grimy roofs, factory chimneys and church spires.───他可以看到骯臟的屋頂、工廠的煙囪和教堂的尖頂。

45 、He struck himself on the forehead with his grimy hand,felt that his entire head was as baldsmooth as his beardless chin.───他又用又黑又臟的手摸了摸前額，突然發(fā)現(xiàn)他的整個腦袋又禿又平，長胡子的地方也同樣如此。

46 、One grimy paw went in and emerged with a roast chicken, which he tossed on the table of the breakfast nook.───他打開冰箱，伸出骯臟的手從里面拿出一只烤雞，隨手扔到餐桌一角。

47 、Last week hundreds swarmed into an abandoned toy factory in Dongguan, a grimy southern town synonymous with sweat-shops.───一心撲在鼓動愛國自豪感上的**沒有領(lǐng)會到金融危機的影響。

48 、From their grimy swing doors, endlessly opening and shutting, there came forth a smell of urine, sawdust, and sour beer.───彈簧門一片臟兮兮，不斷給人開來關(guān)去，門里邊傳出的那股味兒，臊乎乎，濕漉漉，還有種啤酒香。

49 、On the next-to-last day of November, Mr.Wei and his comrades crowded into a small postal outlet, their grimy appearance setting them apart from other customers.───在11月末，魏忠文和工友們會一起來到附近的小郵局，他們臟兮兮的臉龐與其他顧客明顯不同。

50 、We can take three on the list so it will be Grimi, Borriello and Ronaldo.───我們的大名單上還可以放三個人的名字，格里米博列洛和羅納爾多。

51 、to the contrary, that's just the sort of grimy empirical generalisation that chemists discover inductively in their laboratories, to the accompaniment of bangs and stinks.───正相反，這是化學家在他們那乒乓作響且?guī)в袗撼舻膶嶒炇依镞\用歸納方法而發(fā)現(xiàn)的一個灰溜溜的經(jīng)驗概括。

52 、Mundungus, or "Dung" as he's called, smokes a grimy, smelly pipe.───蒙頓格斯，也被叫做“頓格”，經(jīng)常抽一支又臟又臭的煙斗。

53 、A still grimy pew with scuff marks from the boots of sleeping rescue workers is especially moving.───一條仍舊帶有污物的長凳上，當時救援人員用靴子磨損的痕跡仍舊可見，讓人尤其感動。

54 、2.Today Kaifeng is grimy and poor, not even the provincial capital and so minor it lacks even an airport.───今天的開封又臟又窮，不再是省會城市，城市規(guī)模不大，甚至沒有機場。

55 、Floral cloth from flour sacks replaced the burlap-bag curtains covering the grimy window.───他用從面粉袋子上剪下來的花布做成窗簾，換下了原來掛在骯臟不堪的窗戶上的粗麻布口袋。

56 、A kilometre away the Ministry of Truth, his place of work, towered vast and white above the grimy landscape───他的工作單位真理部就在一公里開外，這巍峨潔白的建筑，在骯臟不堪的背景之上高聳入云。

57 、grimy hands.───滿是污垢的雙手

58 、Leandro Grimi has started his Milan career when the full-back came on at the start of the second half in the friendly against Birkirkara in Malta on Tuesday evening.───周二晚在馬其他對拜基卡拉的友誼賽上，萊昂德羅 格里米下半場打后衛(wèi)位置出場開始了他在米蘭的職業(yè)生涯。

59 、According to news daily A BOLA, Milan are ready to put together a player-plus-cash offer for the 22-year-old which would see Argentine Leandro Grimi going the other way.───根據(jù)dailyABOLA的消息，米蘭準備用球員加現(xiàn)金的方式收購這名22歲的球員，阿根廷人格里米將是這名球員。

60 、We're not always this wet and grimy.─── 我們不總是濕漉漉 臟兮兮的

61 、Sitting in a crowded, grimy waiting room with many other people, I waited and watched as my chosen physician examined others and prescribed treatment.───我與骯臟的候診室里的其他病人擠在一起，我一邊等一邊看著將給我看病的大夫檢驗病情開出處方。

62 、It is a humiliating climbdown for a country that, until a few months ago, imported Polish workers to do its grimy jobs.───對于一個直到數(shù)月前還在引進波蘭工人干臟活的國家來說，這是一種令人屈辱的倒退。

63 、The Diavoli may now use Grimi as a makeweight in negotiations for Patricio this summer.───今年夏天米蘭可以把格里米作為交易的籌碼得到帕特里西奧.

64 、The blanket was warm, if grimy.───毯子雖然臟，倒還暖和。

65 、He struck himself on the forehead with his grimy hand, and felt that his entire head was as bald and smooth as his beardless chin.───更可喜的是，他倆的頭發(fā)、胡子變得又長又濃又密，和以前沒有甚么兩樣了。

66 、Its windows are grimy with soot from Beijing's notoriously bad air.───它的窗戶很臟,布滿來自北京臭名昭著的壞空氣的灰塵。

67 、The dish towel has got grimy.───擦碗布拈手都膩了。

68 、I needed a getaway from that dirty, grimy city and all the people that were after me there.─── 而我需要離開那個骯臟的城市 還有那里所有想抓我的人

69 、clean little boys and girls politely calm, and grimy ones whose language splits the ear───還有干凈整潔的小伙子，文靜禮貌的姑娘和說話震破耳朵、臟兮兮的人。

70 、Horrified, he saw that it too had turned back into coal.He struck himself on the forehead with his grimy hand, and felt that his entire head was as bald and smooth as his beardless chin.───國王的女兒見他這樣十分高興，第二天早晨他們快快樂樂地起了床，一起吃喝完畢，在莊嚴的氣氛中再次舉行婚禮，刺猬漢斯繼承了老國王的王位。

71 、This is a grimy, forlorn industrial town.───這是一個骯臟而又荒涼的工業(yè)小鎮(zhèn)。

72 、Coke is sort of grimy, and weed *ells too much.─── 可卡因有點嗆 大麻又味道太重

73 、You were you were tough and grimy and, like, streety, but you were totally vulnerable.─── 你堅強 又滿身污垢 還有街頭范 但又特別脆弱

74 、We bathe her every week or so at home, but occasionally she gets so grimy and tangled that we have to take her to a professional groomer.───我們每周都會幫牠洗澡，不過，有時候牠實在太臟了，而且毛都打結(jié)時，我們就必須把牠送去寵物美容中心好好整理一番。

75 、This doctor may be a little grimy, but he's no substitute for the real defendants in this case.─── 這位醫(yī)生也許有些污點 但他無法代替本案真正的被告人

76 、At last he stood up, waddled clumsily across the cell, dug down into the pocket of his overalls, and, with an abashed air, held out a grimy piece of bread to the skull-faced man.───終于他站了起來，一手**在工作服的口袋里，蹣跚地走過去，有點難為情地拿出一片發(fā)黑的面包來給骷髏頭的人。

77 、Things are leaking, steam's running out of broken pipes, it's grimy, and the place is a mess.─── 零件在漏水 蒸汽從破爛管子里噴出來 環(huán)境很臟 整個地方就是一團亂

78 、There is a grate on the grimy floor.───齷齪的地面上有柵欄。

79 、On the contrary, to borrow Plato's legendary cave metaphor, the beholder had his back to Beauty, able to see only its flickering shadows on the grimy cave wall of reality.───相反，借用柏拉圖傳奇般的洞穴比喻，旁觀者對美麗轉(zhuǎn)過身去，只看到了現(xiàn)實骯臟的墻壁上的閃爍的影子。

80 、Grimy windows soured the world outside with their own fog, and a stench of urine rose from the washrooms.───污穢的車窗布滿了霧氣，使外面的景色模糊不清，洗手間更是飄來了小便后的惡臭。

81 、grimy industrial city───滿是污垢的工業(yè)城市

82 、His home is just outside Patna, the state capital of Bihar, a grimy city sprawled alongside the river Ganges.───他的家就在巴特那郊外，這個比哈爾省的首府現(xiàn)在已成為恒河邊上一個骯臟的城市。

Dannii Minogue的《Creep》 歌詞

歌曲名:Creep

歌手:Dannii Minogue

專輯:Neon Nights

RZA - Creep

Creep, creep, creep

Catch them while they sleep

Empty every shell from your clip

Knock them off their feet

These streets that we maneuver through,

ain't nothing you familiar too

Don't talk it out, noodle you, walk it out at your funeral

Cold blooded, black hearted, Black Knight and Black Ballin'

Black Christmas, be all in your crib with my killas calling

Even if you ain't street, then we creepin', it ain't no secret

Delete you with big toast, that roast you when it heat ya

Off whiskey, pop up and bong that ass like Bob Digi

Crisis the Sharpshooter, I'mma lay 'em down gently

One shot, guns pop, in the streets of Camelot

That's why some keep they shit on safety,

others keep they hammers cocked

Ready to blow, ready to go, fire in the hole

And if a nigga ready to retire, we retiring his soul

Aiyo, I woke up hungry every day (every day)

Til I learn to do the hustle, every which and every way

A couple niggas hit the Chevy wit the K

And the candy apple tray, it gets heavy in L.A.

When Track died, Mack cried

Once we start banging again, then he did a back slide

I was in tune wit the sun, star, moon

Eddie shot up thirty niggas, in the bar, over June

The city's full of Crips

AK's, four-fives, mac-11's, full of clips (Long Beach)

Young hogs wit they pockets full of chips

If any, not many, academic scholarships

Pulp Fiction, driving in your car without permission

With a video vixen, giving me head like Bill Clinton

Got a drug addiction, pop pills with no prescription

Stuck in the rehab, the only man with bad intentions

Truly, I'm the one the West is really missing

Your shit is garbo', I kill you off with one sentence

The rap apprentice, with a little sack of new inventions

Don't listen, and I Jimmy off your head like a Henchman

Squeeze, squeeze, squeeze

Make them Swiss cheese

You wanna feel the heat? I pull the flame out

Make a wish, boy, blow your brains out

Watch me step out the cribby, with the heavy chain out

Leaving blood on your shirt, you can't get the stain out

In a big body truck, my hair, knotty as a fuck

Shotty tucked under the seat, plus a hottie in the truck

Get these wizes, get these digits, get my ninjas back in business

All you suckas, get the scissors

You don't work like you broke and keep AK's like I'm Oakland

I be, making that dough, like the Pillsbury Doughman

Bobby, covered in ice, like it's Frosty the Snowman

You suckas is useless like old New York tokens

Front on the Bobby D, watch how your body bleed

You ain't worth the weight of a grain, from a poppy seed

Make your brain rupture, decompose your frame structure

MC's tremble when they hear the name of us

Puffin' Eastwood stogies, swinging Tiger Woods bogeys

The mic is my co-d, the pen is a parolee

No jail cell can hold me, Zodiac can't describe me

King Tech scratch the beat, like he caught poison ivy

Compton's where you can find me in the hood, so grimy

Run laps on these tracks, it's a fact, you can time me

Ready, set, go, I let the, tech blow

Rugged Monk, kill a track at any, tempo

It's simple, We Usually Take All Niggas Garments

Spot rush them busters, blockade they apartment

It's over, foreclosure, your shit is shut down

Creep when you sleep and squeeze the four pound

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社交場合脫身技巧

　如何輕松得體地從那些“粘人”的社交場合中脫身?如何逃離聚會中的無聊談話?如何結(jié)束一場爭執(zhí)?對于這些常見的尷尬處境，本文將教你幾招，讓你和尷尬說拜拜。接下來，我給大家準備了社交場合脫身技巧,歡迎大家參考與借鑒。

　社交場合脫身技巧

　Escape a dull coversation 結(jié)束無聊的談話

　At a cocktail2 party (assuming you haven’t made the mistake of sitting down with the person), it’s fine to excuse yourself to get a drink or food, help the hostess, or make a phone call. (If you did sit down, employ the same tactics. It’s just a little more awkward having to get up.) To avoid an embarrassing getaway “gotcha,” be sure to follow through on your excuse — that is, get the drink, help the hostess, make a call.

　在雞尾酒會上(假設(shè)你還沒傻傻地和一個無聊的人一塊坐下)，如果想抽身，就托辭去拿飲料或食物、幫助女主人或打**(如果你坐下了，也可以采取同樣辦法，不過會稍微尷尬一些)。為了不讓你在”勝利大逃亡“中被尷尬地逮住，就一定要”說到做到“，即：去拿飲料、幫女主人、打**。

　nother tried-and-true tactic3? Introduce the bore to someone else, excuse yourself, and scram. This way, you avoid leaving the bore stranded4, and he becomes someone else’s problem. Who knows? They may hit it off.

　有別的切實可行的招數(shù)嗎?你可以把這無聊的人介紹給別人，然后找個借口趕緊撤!這樣就避免了被無聊的人纏身，他成了別人的麻煩?？烧l知道呢?說不定那兩人會很投機。

　Escape a telemarketer 逃離**營銷員

　A polite “Thanks, I’m not interested” is your best response to unwanted calls. “The caller will probably come back with a benefit statement or a probing question” — such as Are you aware this will cut your insurance bill in half? — says Kimberly King, president of InterWeave Corporation, a customer-service consulting firm in Tampa. Again, thank the person and hang up. Don’t let her rattle6 on, which is a waste of your time and hers. And never explain or volunteer anything. Telemarketers work from a script with responses to common customer objections (called “soft no’s” in the industry). Saying another family member needs to make the decision will only lead to more questions: What time will he be in? Can I call back then? Finally, ask to be taken off the calling list, and wait for the telemarketer to do it before you hang up. That extra minute is worth it.

　一句客氣的“謝謝，我不感興趣”是給煩人**的最好答復(fù)。打**的人大概又會說他/她將給你帶來什么樣的好處，或者問你這樣的問題，比如Kimberly King會問：“你知道嗎，這能讓你的 保險 帳單費減半?！?Kimberly KingInter是Weave Corporation的總裁，這是一家位于坦帕市的客服咨詢公司。你繼續(xù)說謝謝，然后就掛斷**。別由她嘰里呱啦說個不停，浪費你倆的時間。不要做任何解釋或自愿做任何事情。**營銷員都采用一個腳本來對付客戶通常做出的拒絕(行話叫“軟拒絕”)。如果你回答道：這要由家人做決定。那他/她就會窮追不舍，提出更多問題：他什么時候會在家里? 到時候我再打**好嗎?最后，只好要求他/她把你的號碼從呼叫單上撤除，并且要求對方撤除后你再掛**。多花點時間是值得的。

　Escape a Stumper 如何對付“提難題的人”

　How do you say “I don’t know” without sounding, well, dumb? Especially in a nerve-racking setting, like a job interview? Be direct, says Sue Shellenbarger, a career-advice columnist7 at the Wall Street Journal: Just say, “That’s a great question. I’d like to think about it and get back to you.”

　要怎樣說“我不知道”才能讓自己聽上去不傻?尤其在一個讓人緊張的場合，比如工作 面試 ?華爾街的職業(yè)建議專欄作家Sue Shellenbarger的建議是：坦白。只要說：“這個問題很好，我要先考慮一下再回答?！?/p>

　If you don’t have a good answer because you haven’t been doing your job well, apologize and specify8 when you’ll get back on the query9; then be sure to do so or you’ll lose credibility. If putting off the question isn’t an option (you’re a keynote speaker at an event; you’re being interviewed on TV), employ the Ted5 Kennedy strategy, says Anne Fisher, who writes Ask Annie, a career-advice column for CNNMoney. com: “Say, ‘That’s a good question, but an even more interesting question is.…’” Then talk about what you do know. “It’s worked for Kennedy,” says Fisher. “He’s been elected eight times.”

　如果是因為自己的工作一直沒做好而找不到一個好的答案，那么就道歉，然后確定何時反饋該問題的結(jié)果;然后，一定要說話算話，否則你將會失去信用了。如果不可能推遲回答問題(例如你在演講或在電視上被采訪)，Anne Fisher說可以采取Ted Kennedy(肯尼迪總統(tǒng)的弟弟)的策略。Anne Fisher是CNNMoney網(wǎng)站職業(yè)建議專欄《問安妮》專欄作家。你可以說“這個問題問得很好，但更有趣的是......” 然后就說你知道的?！?Fisher說：“這個辦法幫過Kennedy的忙。他贏得八次議員選舉?！?/p>

　Escape a spat10 with your significant other 如何結(jié)束爭執(zhí)

　He started it. Well, maybe you did. Either way, you don’t want to talk about it anymore. Do you have to finish what you began? No, says David Ransburg, a therapist at the Family Institute at Northwestern University, in Evanston, Illinois. In fact, you shouldn’t continue until you’re calm. “When we’re in a ‘flooded’ emotional state, access to the part of the brain where logical thinking resides is inhibited12, and IQ drops noticeably — perhaps by as much as 15 points,” says Ransburg. “This is when we say things we wish we could take back.” So call a time-out. Typically, your logic11 will return in about 20 minutes, at which point you can resume the discussion in a productive way.

　剛才是他引發(fā)的爭吵，嗯，說不定是你。但不管是誰，反正你不想再吵下去了。一定要吵出個究竟才會罷休嗎?David Ransburg說：不。David Ransburg是伊利諾斯州Evanston市西北大學家庭學院的一名治療學家。他說，實際上，在你心情平靜前，不應(yīng)該繼續(xù)說下去。 Ransburg說：“爭吵時，我們都處于一個“頭腦發(fā)脹“的狀態(tài)，不理智，智商顯著下降了大概15個點，這時候說過的話會讓我們后悔”。所以，先暫停。通常，你的邏輯能力會在大約20分鐘后恢復(fù)，然后以具有成果性的方式進行討論。

　If you can’t call a time-out midspat, practice with tiny disagreements, suggests Ransburg, when you’re both less likely to take things personally。

　如果你不能”中場暫停“，Ransburg的建議是，人們用細小的爭論來練習，因為此時你們兩人較不容易感情用事。

　擴展：如何擺脫一個話癆

　Your father-in-law is telling you that story about foiling the pickpocket1 in Moscow -- for the fifth time. Do you let him know you’ve heard it before and can tell it better than he does? “If the story is longer than a minute and the two of you are alone, do interrupt to tell him that you’ve heard — and enjoyed — that story once before,” says Margaret Shepherd, a coauthor of The Art of Civilized2 Conversation. Try: “You had everyone in stitches when you told that story last Christmas.” No need to add that you’ve heard the story for the last four Christmases. “Segue to a related topic,” suggests Shepherd, and if possible, draw in another person to freshen up the conversation.

　你的岳父正給你講述他在莫斯科挫敗扒手的 故事 -——已經(jīng)能是第五次了。你要告訴他你以前就聽過，而且你能比他說得還溜嗎?“如果故事時間超過一分鐘，并且在場只有你們兩人，那還是打斷一下，告訴他你聽過一次，也喜歡聽這段故事?！?這是Margaret Shepherd給人們的建議。Margaret Shepherd是《文明談話藝術(shù)》一書的合著者。你可以試著說：”去年您在過 圣誕節(jié) 時講的時候，大家都笑得合不攏嘴“，你就別說這四年來每次圣誕節(jié)都聽這故事了。Shepherd建議：“用一個相關(guān)話題順著接下去”，如果可能，再拉一個人過來，增加談話的內(nèi)容。

　With older people whose memory may be slipping or when you’re in a group, though, it can be cruel to interrupt, says author Letitia Baldrige: “Patiently listen and wait for a chance to change the subject. If they’re thrilled to be telling the story, dismissing them too suddenly is like smooshing an ant.”

　不過，如果對方年紀比較大， 記憶力 在減退，或你在一群人中，那么打斷就很不禮貌了。這是作家Letitia Baldrige的話?！?你要)耐心聽，找到一個機會轉(zhuǎn)移話題。如果這樣的故事讓他們激動，突然打斷他們就會像碾死一只螞蟻一樣讓人不安。”

　How to Escape Being in the Wrong Restaurant 如何逃離“錯餐館”

　You’ve been seated, they’ve given you water and bread, and you decide — because the place is a bit grimy or too expensive, or nothing on its menu is appealing — that you want to leave. Can you just get up and go? “My policy is never to settle when it comes to food,” says Danyelle Freeman, a restaurant reviewer for New York’s Daily News and the founder3 of the website Restaurantgirl.com. “If you feel like you’ve made a bad choice, cut your losses and quietly exit. If the restaurant has already put water and bread on the table, they’ve technically4 begun service, so you should perhaps leave a small tip.”

　If your server catches you on the way out, Freeman says, “graciously thank the person and briefly5 explain that you’re looking for something lighter6, more casual, or whatever else the restaurant isn’t.” Don’t linger making excuses. “At the end of the day,” says Freeman, “it’s your money.”

　你已經(jīng)座了下來。有人給你上水和面包，然后——因為這個地方有點不太干凈或價格太貴，或者菜單上沒什么能讓你感興趣——于是，你決定離開。能站起來就走嗎?Danyelle Freeman說：“我的原則是，吃絕不能將就。” Danyelle Freeman是紐約日報新聞的一位餐館評論員及網(wǎng)站Restaurantgirl.com的創(chuàng)辦者。 “如果覺得進錯了地方，就及時打住，安靜地離開。如果餐館人員已經(jīng)上了水和面包，那么，嚴格地說，就已經(jīng)開始對你服務(wù)了，所以你應(yīng)該留一筆小數(shù)目的小費?！?/p>

　Freeman 說，如果在離開的時候被服務(wù)員發(fā)現(xiàn)，那么"禮貌地謝謝那個人，簡短說自己想去一個更明亮、更隨意，或者任何和這家不同的地方。"不要逗留在原處找借口，再怎么說，錢到底怎么花，還是你自己說了算?！?Freeman說。

　How to Escape a Sermon 如果逃避一位“說教者”

　You may escape faster—and avoid future rants7 — if you take a moment to hear the person out, says author Margaret Shepherd: “Don’t debunk8 their beliefs, tease, ignore, argue, scoff9, or demean. They’ll just try harder to convince you.” Let the person spew for a couple of minutes before you introduce a neutral subject or make your exit.

　Offensive rants—racist, misogynist10, or obscene — are an exception. In those cases, cut the speaker off as soon as possible with a simple “Excuse me — I’ve got to go.” If the sermon takes place at work and other people are present, enlist11 their help. “They probably don’t want to hear it either,” says author Anne Fisher. After listening to the lecturer for a minute or two, say, “It’s interesting you feel so strongly about that, Joe. Hey, Sally, what did you think about the sales meeting last week?” Unless the person “is a total bonehead,” says author Anne Fisher, “he or she will take the hint.”

　如果你耐心聽完這人的話，也許反而能更快地脫離，還能避免更多的嘮叨。這是Margaret Shepherd的話?！眲e揭穿他們的信仰，別去嘲笑、忽視、爭辯、不敬或貶低。那樣只會讓他們更努力地去說服你?！白屇侨苏f上幾分鐘，然后表達你中性的話題，或者是離開。

　那些帶有進攻性的長篇大論的人——種族主義者，厭惡女人的人，猥褻的人——則是例外。這時候，用最簡單的話”勞駕，我要走了“來終止談話。如果這種說教發(fā)生在辦公場所，在場有其他人，那么請求他人幫助。”他們可能也不愿聽，“ 作家Anne Fisher說。在聽了一兩分鐘之后，你可以說：”真有趣，你對這感覺這么強烈。張三，李四，王二，你們對上周的銷售會議怎么看?“ 除非那人是一個徹底的榆木腦袋，不然肯定會知趣。

　How to Escape an Inebriated12 Coworker 如何逃離一位醉酒后的同事

　An after-work drink with the new assistant sounded like fun, but three drinks later she is anything but. Can you ditch her? “No,” says author Anne Fisher. “Leaving a drunk to fend13 for herself could be dangerous, especially if he or she is planning to drive. You must either pour this person into a taxicab or drive him or her home.” Use any excuse you’d like to call it a night. (“I have so much to get ready for tomorrow.” “I’ve got to feed the dog.” “My mother phones me at 11 pm and I have to be home for her call.”)

　To mitigate14 any morning-after awkwardness with someone you’ll continue to see, shrug15 off her own comments about being embarrassed (don’t rub it in) and extend an occasional lunch invitation, says Fisher. Make sure you go “someplace that doesn’t serve anything stronger than iced tea.” And remember: Lots of people are “instant idiots” (just add alcohol) but fine company when sober.

　和新來的助手下班后一起喝酒聽上去很不錯，但是酒過三巡后，她形象盡失。能丟下她不管嗎? ”不可以，“ 作家Anne Fisher說，”讓喝醉了酒的人去照顧自己是危險的做法，尤其當他/她還打算開車的話。你可以將此人扶入一輛出租車，或開車送他/她回家?！?你可以隨便找一個理由來打住(”還要為明天做很多準備“，”我家有狗要喂“，“我母親晚上11點會給我打**，我要回去接**”)。

　為了減少第二天早上和還要見面的那個人之間的尷尬，對她說自己感覺窘迫的話一帶而過(別反而去提醒她)，然后，邀請她有時間去吃一頓午飯。一定要注意你們?nèi)サ牡胤健白疃嘀还?yīng)冰茶”。還要記?。汉芏嗳硕际恰八偃馨装V”(只要“溶”一些酒精就變白癡)，但在他們清醒的時候，仍是一位不錯的同伴。

　How to Escape a Run-In with a Long-Lost “Pal” 如何逃離和多年不見的“老友”的相遇

　If you barely have enough time for the friends you have now, be wary16 of taking on someone you haven’t missed that much and nip this encounter in the bud — nicely, of course. During the initial meeting, show some enthusiasm — “Great to see you!” — but don’t overdo17 it. “Don’t even vaguely18 suggest having lunch if your gut19 feeling is ‘Get me out of here,’” says author Margaret Shepherd.

　If the person insists on a “date” and keeps calling or e-mailing to follow up, Shepherd suggests spelling out the terms you can live with: location (close to you), duration (short), purpose (Is it strictly20 personal, or is there a business motive21?). Also, be direct about anything you don’t want to discuss. (“I’d love to catch up on what you’re doing, but if we’re going to talk about that horrible personnel manager one more time, let’s call it off.”) Meet with the person once, and keep in mind that you don’t have to see him or her again if your opinion hasn’t changed.

　如果你的時間剛好只能貢獻給你現(xiàn)在的朋友，在重逢那些交情淺的朋友時要小心，把這樣的巧遇要“扼殺在搖籃里”——當然，是友善地。最初見面時，表現(xiàn)出一些熱心：“見到你真好!”但別過度?！叭绻阈睦锵胫蔽蚁胱摺埃敲匆膊灰憩F(xiàn)出絲毫要邀請此人共進午餐的跡象，”作家Margaret Shepherd說。

　如果那人堅持要再見面，且再不斷給你打**或發(fā)電子郵件，Shepherd的建議是：把你的條件一一說明白：地點(離你家近)，時間(短)，目的(單單涉及個人，還是另有商業(yè)企圖?)。同樣，直接說出你不愿意交談的內(nèi)容(“我是想和你聯(lián)絡(luò)感情，可如果還要去談?wù)撃莻€鬼人事經(jīng)理的話，那就算了”)去和這人見一次面。記住，除非你改變主意，否則就不要再去見他/她了。

 

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